Kiyotaka Yamana from Japan loves his wife Kimi so much that he decided to found an organization called Aisaika. It includes husbands who devotedly love their wives.
The word “aisaika” means “devoted husband” or “loving husband.” An organization has a headquarters, project plans, and a mission.
The organization’s members are convinced that if families have good relationships, the whole world will become kinder and calmer.
Kiyotaka’s first eight-year marriage ended in divorce. Then he realized that he had not done everything possible to save his family. The man has been happy with his second wife for 20 years.
To create happy marital relationships, members of the organization adhere to five rules:
1. Come home early – before 8 pm.
2. Create a calm atmosphere
3. Call your spouse by name
4. Look your spouse in the eyes
5. Listen to what your wife has to say
Kiyotaka said that he follows these rules with his wife from the very beginning of their married life. Wanting to improve family relationships, men turned to him for advice, so he decided to share his experience with others. Now the organization has approximately 200 people.
One of the most famous events of the organization is the annual celebration of “Day of Beloved Wives.” It is celebrated on January 31st. According to tradition, on this day husbands must confess their love to their wives.
Kiyotaka explained that in Japan it is not common for men to show love to their spouse. During this event, the spouse can openly tell his partner how much he loves her. Screaming about love is not necessary, but many people still talk loudly about it. And it takes courage to confess your love loudly in front of many people.
The organization believes that in order to maintain a happy family, you need to constantly take care of this, that is, be grateful and devoted to each other, and also respect your soulmate.
